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    This is going to be blunt, but him accessing your foxtel is the least of your concerns right now.

    I'm sure it's daunting with how much you have to do, but you really do need to do it. Prioritise centrelink. Prioritise seeking legal aid to get the ball rolling with custody/parenting orders. Prioritise having a safe roof over your and your children's heads.

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    OP do you have any support irl? Siblings or friends? It's time to reach out.

    I'm pretty sure I have the right person when I say you were in a bubhub weight challenge several years ago for a large prize, you didn't win but you made some pretty dedicated progress and you were committed to the process. Get that fire again! Focus on the right stuff! Everyone here has your back and wants to see you break free!

    Carpe diem OP!!!!!

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    Don't cancel the Foxtel yet. Not only is it the least of your concerns atm, but don't start something that could cause a spiteful tit-for-tat.... you cancel Foxtel, he might cancel the lease. You'll be homeless, with Foxtel.

    Come on OP, you need to get your new life sorted.

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    If I was in your position and I had lots of support and help in QLD and I had someone to stay with like family then I would pack my stuff and just go.
    Deal with the consequences later, courts don't always force you back. You have a good case, he walked out on you and left you broke and alone with kids. Also you are already from QLD originally.
    I know people will not agree but that is truely what I would do. Then I would fight it all the way.
    I would see legal aid in Qld straight away and set up Centrelink asap in QLD.
    He would not be dictating my life for a second. He can take his rental and foxel and shove it.
    But hey that's just me. I still reckon he will be back once his holiday is over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Janesmum123 View Post
    I still reckon he will be back once his holiday is over.
    Me too. That's exactly why the OP needs to get things going.

    If he comes home and you have nothing in place, it's going to be far too easy for him to persuade you to take him back, that you're dependant on him. OP, this is what you wanted... Needed! You have been given so much practical advice on here, take it on board, write a list of what needs to be done and start crossing through it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by babyla View Post
    OP do you have any support irl? Siblings or friends? It's time to reach out.

    I'm pretty sure I have the right person when I say you were in a bubhub weight challenge several years ago for a large prize, you didn't win but you made some pretty dedicated progress and you were committed to the process. Get that fire again! Focus on the right stuff! Everyone here has your back and wants to see you break free!

    Carpe diem OP!!!!!
    I think you have the wrong person ..

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    I feel like a ****ing idiot. ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I think you have the wrong person ..
    Fair enough. But everyone here does have your back and you don't need to feel like an idiot.

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    The other week he said that he wanted the kids for a week and I was worried and didn't want him to have them ....and to my joy nothing come of it .
    Well stupid me on Friday asked if he wanted to do something for easter .... (my reasoning ) was so that it was done in my terms ....he said nothing what do you want to do ....
    Then his next text was my Sister wants to come ova on Sunday and see the kids blah blah blah. ..
    Now I may be wrong but I asked HIM what HE was doing ...and straight away his sister gets thrown into the works ...I continued to text him but a said nothing about his sister ...
    So today he turns up and he talks about easter egg hunt etc etc ...and then he says we can do a hunt now and another later because when my sister comes she will have eggs also ...
    I came straight out and said I'm not happy about his sister being included in this and he has cracked the ****s again. ..I'm the ***** etc etc ...
    I said I was making plans with you and I wasn't asked if she could come ova ... (Well I wasn't )
    And things are very negative between us and the last t h ing that I need is to have her here knowing that those two have *****ed about me together and have her hear so early on in with all that has happened ...I'm not here to make her happy ...I can't win ....I regret the whole thing now ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Yep that's what's ****ing me off and I'm paying for it. ..
    I could be wrong but i feel like you're turning this foxtel thing into a bigger issue because you're too scared to deal with the more important problems.

    I know it's scary, but you need to face these problems. They are not going to fix themselves.

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