I think i really need help here! I am confused myself no matter how many times i have asked in this forum i just cannot find ways to educate ds around school rules other than talking a lot with him( and even too much!!) and he gets none out of it!
*touch wood* that was the last time i heard ds jumping off the furniture. At home *also touch wood* he doesnt jump off anything at home (ok he never does it regularly.. He did a few times before and despite a lot of screaming from us he kept going like he was half deaf). Now we keep him busy doing something else such as kids chores etc or simple arts n crafts).
I will 'grill' the teacher tomorrow asking what exactly in school that ds has troubles following.
I have to say though 30 years ago when i was at kindy i was very shy and my behaviour at school and home was perhaps the same. My mother thought i was the easiest daughter to raise although i wasnt academically outstanding. So now i have a hard time digesting and comparing ds behaviour betwren at school and home.
I have said a number of times to ds, listen to your teacher and dont wander off during class, OK?! And he said OK. Then i ask him again after school whether he was unsettled again, he said no. So was my approach right??