DD already sees a speech therapist and we have a paed appointment for 21st March (earliest I could get).
At first the speech therapist wasn't too concerned but as she's gotten to know my daughter and as her speech actually improves she's showing more signs of ASD.
She has great eye contact, laughs and is affectionate with those close to her. But there is a long list of other signs. Today the speech therapist pointed out the way she sits (W with legs) which I wasn't even aware of!
After the paediatrician who else will be involved in diagnosis and how long does it generally takes to find out? She'll be 3 in April. We haven't told family except my mum because DHs family are likely to just make insensitive comments so don't want to deal with it tbh.