I always said to DP that if we had a baby boy, I wanted to use my two grandfathers first or middle names to make up our son's middle name. Now that we are expecting a baby boy, DP has decided he would like to do the same with one of his grandfathers names. We don't want to use any as the first name and we can't have three middle names. I won't use only one of my grandfathers names and not the other. Should I let DP have his way and just hope that we have another boy so that I can honour my pop's?