Hi everyone I'm not sure if this is just for Australians but was just googling sites and foun this one. Anyhow after a few months of not losing any weight on weightwatchers and feeling bloated a lot with slight back ache I found he reason why. Yep up the spout. To say me and o/h were shocked is an understatement . Although together 19 years we weren't planning a baby. So it's all new really and we aren't the most maternal/paternal people lol. I was all for getting rid but he was practical and said maybe it's out time and a blessing and not the child's fault. I'm still confused about whole thing. I'm not sure how far along I am but all the bloating and not losing much weight started just before Christmas. Not taken pill properly which was stupid but I guess I thought oh it won't happen to me. Now o/h talking bout getting married as right thing to do so he child doesn't get picked on for having unmarried parents. I really don't want to be a fat bride. Midwife appointment on 1st match which I'm worried about as no idea how far along I Am or even about my last proper period. All happening so fast and it's crazy. Can't seem to bond with this thing inside me.