Oh also I was right. MHN confirmed my DD has minor upper lip tie. I am upset of course. It's minor though and she said it doesn't impact speech. Mainly impact feeding.
Tongue tied can impact feeding and speech but upper lip tie only impact feeding.
Tongue tied is easy to fix at birth simply a snip. Upper lie tie needs laser. That's why not many paed said anything about fixing it.
Upper lip tie can apparently fixes itself when the teeth come out.
That's what my MHN told me.