Hi, I just want advice on what other mums would do in this situation?
The 'incident' occurred on Monday, I only found out lunchtime today. In which a boy pulled my daughters pants down and licked her vagina...yes you read that right. I am beyond sickened and disgusted and so ridiculously furious that this happened. The worst part is I am in another state for work and my husband told me what had happened 2 days AFTER it had happened...meanwhile he CONTINUED TO SEND OUR DAUGHTERS to daycare!!! he told the teachers what had happened (our daughter told my husband the teachers did not see it) and they said they would keep a close eye on my daughter and keep her away from the boy. How can they keep an eye on my daughter constantly when there's 2 teachers to a class room full of children?! Furthermore the director said they can't "expel" the other child until there's another report against them!! Oh, So it's OK to molest once but twice and your out. I know it's not the child's fault and that there's a very real possibility that he has been molested but now I cannot send my child to daycare, she cannot see her friends because I'm terrified she might get molested AGAIN on the playground!!! I'm also concerned for the other children and I also just want to confront the other child's parents and get answers. I mean that is REALLY not normal what the **** are they doing in front of that child!!!
So obviously I'm an absolute ****ing wreck - if I hadn't been away working this never would have happened. I have told my (****ing idiot) husband to not send them to daycare tomorrow so he will be staying home with our children. I only have 1 week of work left but should I just go home tomorrow morning so I can sort this out properly and be with my daughter? What should I say to the daycare? they have been notified and they let the other child's parents know but I feel like that's not good enough!!!
sorry if this made no sense I am beyond furious!!!