Slightly derailing as OP you have mentioned your DD refuses solids (I understand as mine did) but if solids are introduced early in the day rather than after lunch/dinner would that help with the bubs that find digesting the food difficult sleep? I.e. hopefully the 'digestion' of food is settled and it would not affect their sleep?
I've read the BLW book and it makes sense.. Have you tried just letting her feed herself?
DD actually cried when I tried to spoon feed her ( so I soon quit and she loves feeding herself! ) so maybe it's not for every baby. She sounds like a feisty little thing lol!
Pregnant for the first-time?
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