I am currently 20 weeks pregnant with my first child after going through infertility.
I have made it clear to family already (given the shortage in privatised vaccines) that no vax no visit applies in our house.
Hubby has two older kids both of which aren't vaccinated for whooping cough which would normally be around when Bub is born (one is 20 and comes and goes and stays with us whenever he wishes as he doesn't live far from us and often needs to raid the fridge haha and the other one who is 16 comes in school holidays when Bub would be due).
I tried to sort out for the older one to get vaxxed at my friends clinic near his work (me paying for it as he earns very little money) but that didn't sit well with his mother for whatever reason. So I am obviously concerned that neither of his kids will be vaxxed in the end of the day although I can't be certain yet. Regardless of their vaccination status hubby wants them to visit which I do understand and I would love them to as I love his kids too knowing them for over 10 years now. They are also very excited. However I refuse to make an exception to the no vax no visit rule and hubby thinks I am in the wrong.
I am just concerned about my child especially after finding out that the child of my step grandmother died on whooping cough as an infant which is my step fathers twin.
How would you go about it?