Hi, I am seriously contemplating a third child but I need to make this decision fairly quickly as I am 41 turning 42 later this year.
I have an 11 year old and and 8 year old and I have never felt "done".
I am in reasonably good shape, no known health problems, normal periods while taking the pill.
Crazy but I'm worried this new child would resent having an 'old' mum. I think I look ok for my age, I'm active and I still feel 31!
I would love to hear from anyone who has had a baby 40+ especially a second or third. Or anyone who has an 'older' mum.
Also welcome are any opinions telling me I'm not mad 😬