@RainbowLorikeet - All the best for the surgery! My thoughts are with you.
@MissTilly - I totally agree with @Billie2, don't let those thoughts get to you! Having had a miscarriage from natural conception, I agree that IVF probably gives us a better chance with the interventions. I fell pregnant unexpectedly last time and we were over the moon. I started trawling forums and all, and got very paranoid about miscarriages in the first trimester and introduced alot of negative thoughts in my head and true enough, bub didn't stick around. That is something I absolutely regret. So this time, I am going to stay POSITIVE! I am going to try my very best to ease into the pregnancy and make sure bub has an amazing positive happy environment to stay in! You know you got this in the bag and I am very sure if you decided to tell your family, they would be supportive and over the moon! Trust yourself and your own judgement!
Thanks @tjuls for the lil edu session on aspirin. I think i am leaning towards getting some acupuncture intervention for now, I might continue for the first trimester if I get preggers, but I think I am jumping the gun here.
@Billie2 - that's AT LEAST 5 lil warriors. potentially a couple more! Plus, the last couple of days before EPU can spell big changes. Let us know when you get news!