Obviously a diet completely void of any sugar, preservative etc VS a diet of constant Macca's and coco pops 24/7 is going to win hands down health wise. But small amounts of those things in moderation are fine.As I've read on, it seems that both parties here are very resistant to any real compromise. She doesn't want to part with the junk and he won't accept anything but his way it seems.
I can't get over how obsessive people get over diet. Maybe it's bc I have older kids than most here, but this level of control is unhealthy for everyone. It's easy to ensure a 3 year old doesn't have nutrigrain. It's a little more difficult when they get to 12 When you don't teach and allow self moderation and a bit of autonomy you get kids/teens/adults that can barely make a decision for themselves, have no impulse control and are rebelling. I know that's not a popular view on here, but that's JMO.