I'm home full time with a 3 yo and 1 yo so do most of the everyday stuff. DH works 12 hr days 6 days per week for 4 weeks then gets a full week off. On his full week off we do a full over haul of the house, fans, walls, glass, etc. I do bathrooms and mop the Floors weekly. Hubby gets home at 530, dinner is usually ready and he does the dishes afterwards, helps bath the kids and puts at least one of them to bed. He does outside, lawns and weeds, hoses down patio etc. on his Sunday off or after work. He often walks in and grabs the stick vacuum and runs it over the floor.
All in all I know he is a great help, but he often doesn't take initiative and I have to ask him to do things, he usually does it straight away though. Also when I go to play sport if I leave a clean basket of washing he will usually fold it, but otherwise I do all the washing.
Re reading that I feel pretty lucky. But my hubby is also seriously ocd so that works in my favour for the most part.