It's ds's second week of cubs and I did ask him what he wanted to do, he said he wants to go to cubs. The mum put a post on facebook in reference to the friends her ds thought were his friends don't seem to be so not sure if something else has gone on with others.
I think that the boys go to school together, they get along and play at school and that's enough. If they don't see each other out of school doesn't mean they aren't friends. I have many friends at work but I don't see them out of work, they are still friends. I've let the playdates go on too long I guess. I'm not real big on the whole playdate thing in general. When we get home from work that's our family time, more often than not we chill and the last thing we want is peoples children over.