glad to hear you've passed the worst of it BiB. keep resting and hydrating to regain your strength
@Gagingi, all sounding great! keep going little embies!
afm we're 5 weeks today
Charlie74 No need to apologise, that's what we're all here for. You're going through hell at the moment. When will you be able to speak to LB and get this all off your chest and hopefully get some answers? Or some way forward?
don't worry @Charlie74, you're not taking over the thread. I hope your FS has some ideas & explanations for you. I hope you can start again soon too. put on some ambient music today to try calm you down?
Regarding stress being a contributing factor....
When I first started this IVF journey my Doctor told me that stress produced a hormone which counteracts the body's desire to get pregnant. He said it can prevent implantation and also contribute towards miscarriage. Now, he is a fairly well regarded Doctor, so it is something I do think about from time to time.
I know I bang on about the power of positive thinking A LOT. But when I think back to my two transfers (one fresh and one frozen) I really do hold some merit in that. With my fresh transfer the lab staff told me (as they were putting my emby back in) that 'Well, you know the odds here aren't great" When I pointed out that surely my chance was as good as anyone else's they simply said "Don't be getting your hopes up." That whole 2WW I was constantly checking for blood, and feeling like it was never going to work - and sure enough, it didn't.
With the second transfer, there were different lab staff on. One came in and excitedly told me that my emby was thawing out beautifully and I was 'In with a good chance with this one." I looked at the poster in the room of a baby and really felt that it was going to work for me. When I left the room I thought "I'm pregnant!" The 2WW passed quickly, and I got my BFP 6dp5dt.
Granted, that pregnancy didn't last the distance, but one thing stood out for me - the cycle in which I was less stressed resulted in my BFP. So I do hold great faith in the adage of being as positive as possible, and in putting our worries out to the universe. I feel like the more accepting we are of our predestined 'fate', the more open we are to receiving gifts when the time is right.
I sound crazy, I know. But sometimes I think if we just 'unclench' things might run a little smoother for us, and the journey might not be as emotionally crippling as it sometimes is. At the end of the day, I think less stress = healthier (and more fertile) body.
@Tahli, sorry to hear your drugs are making you sick. I hope the worst of it is over for you hon. Likewise, @BIB, I'm glad your LO has turned the corner and you can see light at the end of the tunnel.
AFM, I just took my last Primolut tablet this morning, so now I wait for AF to make an appearance. I have to start bleeding before Sunday in order to start injecting on Monday. Eeeeekkkkk! The pressure!
good luck @Blossom. I hope everything works to schedule
I think there is something about the stress too. I felt more stressed other cycles than this one. I think it was due to having almost 2 months off and just working on uni assignments (small stress, but good stress). I'd pretty much resigned myself that we were pretty much done but wanted to give the frostie a go as it had been waiting a while. I was thinking uni/making things was going to be the next 20years plan-b. I think the no meds leading up (apart from progesterone support post transfer) helped keep me calmer too. and I've just felt this overwhelming happy feeling since friday (before first poas) which was unusual (I thought it was due to new work project falling into place but maybe both). so whilst it didn't help grow the frostie at the time (was *very* stressed then with work) perhaps it helped with implantation. not sure. it certainly didn't hurt though. I don't want it to sound like those people who say 'just relax and it'll happen when you least expect it' but ...
just thought id say hi!
Had a DS 2 years ago and now trying for number 2. Was just taking pre conception multi vit, and my last cycle all 6 arrested on day three. So I need to up my supplements to help with egg quality? What does everyone recomend?
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