I understand the principal behind altruistic surrogates and donors but I think the reality is that doing either of these things warrants (in my mind anway) more than token reimbursement. Going through an IVF cycle for someone else is pretty amazing stuff. Going through a pregnancy just blows my mind. I would hate it to become a "I'm just doing it for the money" thing but maybe a bit of moula might help some ladies thinking about it to say "Yes, this is now practical for me to go ahead with". Bug**er the men though. Having a w@nk is worth nothing in my book.