thanks ladies. yes I've got an appt at 9am tomorrow to see my GP. I guess I get the BTs done at a pathology place nearby. I don't think they do BTs at the clinic any more. will find out tomorrow in any case.
@Summer, that is really low. she shouldn't have brought it up and it's not fair on any of you. sounds nasty. I hope it doesn't impact the judge's impression/decision.