I have a 2.5 yo and a 10 day old baby. Miss 2.5 is super jealous. She's happy enough to watch tv or play while I bf but when she decides she wants something else and I can't do it for her she is having huge tantrums. She keeps telling me to put him in the bassinet. Currently DH is off work and has been taking her out to the park/pool etc during the day, but I'm worried about being home alone with both. She has a speech and language delay and is generally high needs to trying to explain anything isn't working. She's become very clingy with DH and he is barely allowed near the baby. She HATES when we bath or change him. I can't get her involved in anything.
Any tips on how to deal with this? DH will also be on call for work in March and I'm worried about nights with both of them. DD co-sleeps (currently in her bed with dh as the baby is still waking often).