Heyside hello! How's your weekend? Mines on the mayday public holiday, so probs The next day I guess. I have 10 frer here but I'm not going to poas I've decided. Now that's 9 days time so it might be a different story by then as I may have gone mental from waiting. We are away next weekend so that will be a distraction!!!
My official bt is on tuesday. Despite my doom n gloom prophecies, im still tempted to go down n get some frer's just to double check coz shops will be closed tomorrow. Its such a small town and im a high school teacher so i cant even slip through the self serve because every lovely check out person is a former student of mine. Very good for getting prompt service, one former student throws a massive extra handful in of whatever i ask for at the deli (after he's generated the price sticker) and they always let me be the last person through when they're closing a checkout lane. So, its lovely to be a VIP at coles but not when trying to clandestinely purchase poas. :-) I just wish af would hurry up and i find having to go for the bt when ive got raging AF very distressing. I get really upset, then have to rush to work. The last 2 times, i swore i wasnt going to go but then i woos out coz i know i need to do it and im scared of the lecture I'll get from nasty nurse.
So, at the same time as wanting to poas again, im also working on plan e, f, g...x, y, z... appointment with charlotte...maybe 2 own egg cycles by end of this year ($$$???) And then donor eggs 2017.
Im thinking its getting time to start considering donor embies for next year. Thinking it might be good to think about it for a good 6 months to get mentally prepared. Oh, and prob should mention that to DH too, lol.
I'm so sorry to hear of your bfn. Big hugs and also wish there was something I could say which would help ease the sadness. I really hope its just some spotting and a miracle happens and you don't get your af. It's a perfect day for a pj day. I'm currently in mine now on the lounge pessarie in with the footy on. Big big hugs honey and thinking of you xo oh and Mum has just been released from hospital thank goodness
Last edited by Chyna; 25-04-2016 at 08:07.
@gagngi how r u?
@gorgeousgeorge sorry to hear you think you might have a BFN. They always suck. Your plan sounds good once you fill in DH. I think it is important to have plans for the future with IVF it helps to stay grounded and move forwards after an upsetting cycle outcome. xo and still best of luck with BT on Tuesday. 🌟
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