Me, I'm conservative. I reckon I'd only thaw one to start with. I can't bare the thought of letting a potentially good emby go just because it didn't look quite right. Not quite right looking embies have resulted in babies in the past, I'm sure!
In fact, I've just signed some consent forms and posted them off to my clinic stating that in my next cycle, if by Day 3 there are two embies that are looking like they won't be making it to freeze stage, I want them both transferred in. I'm sh!tscared of twins but the odds are so low, and I can't bare the thought that those embies might not make it to the freezer and would therefore be destroyed somehow. DH was on board with that too. He said "I don't want them to just die, they are our last chance." A fertilised emby is so very precious and I wouldn't want to waste any of them.
I guess what I'm getting around to @Tahli is that if you thaw two and they both survive, I'd be transferring those in. I'd save one for a 'last hurrah' and spend an extra $3K if it was another chance to have a baby. If I had the money, that is....
Last edited by Blossom74; 05-02-2016 at 16:19.
@Tahli how would you cope with twins? Work wise, financially, emotionally and physically. We have had to adjust to it but there is two of us and no other children. It's a tough call, but if I were you, I'd still transfer two because you've had a lot of BFN's and while you were on the immune protocol too. No way in the world would I transfer 3 though - too high a risk of twins. If one is iffy, defrost the third and choose the best two I reckon and refreeze the worst one. It's hard to justify going back to CT for one average embie though..
I've always had a feeling you'd end up with twins for some reason, but I've never been remotely psychic and my women's intuition has been broken for decades so don't worry about me !
Right, now i really have to chime in here ladies.
There are many things I will do in order to have a baby, but shoving things up my back passage is not bl@@dy one of them.
I have to draw a line somewhere people, and my butt-h0le is that line!
Nothing is going up there, are we all clear about that?!
Btw i went to a psychic 2 mths before i did cycle i got pregnant on.the lady said she saw a girl with us by the end of the year she said november. We would have twins but possible not straight away. She said we had struggles and said andrew was prominant. My first sons name is andrew evelyn was virn end of novenber and a girl. Freeky huh.
Haha i was like that yup but if theres a difference between having to lie down and just putting it up there during the work day im on it. Just as well the pecessaries are small!!!
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