And I do want to do one or two more cycles just to put my mind at rest that I did do everything possible with my OE. So I think rather than any big discussions, I'll just present the facts to DH without a lot of emotion and just say this is what I want to do, this is the time frame, these are the costs and then it ends because I'll be 45, but I want that opportunity. I can't see him saying no to that, especially as I normally don't produce any more than one egg so it doesn't even get to EPU so our chances of getting two or three are slim.
If we did split I'm not sure whether I'd go the DE/DS single mother path, I guess I could only tell that once I was in that situation and had my life settled again. But I could see myself living out the song "All I want to do is make love to you" - remember that cheesy one where she had a one night stand with a hot guy purposely to fall pregnant?? LOL