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    Good point @calypso75. I always take a pen and jot down how many follicles I have and what size they are. One cycle I had 6 tinies. I nearly fell off the table but it's usually about 3 which reflects my AMH level I think.
    @Blossom74 does have an update. I think it might come in around 8pm. @BlondeinBrisvegas Coolio, I'll pop 2 extra little blue pills up the vjayjay at night. You can't o/d on estrogen right?! I hope you can stay as cool as possible. I have a virus from my LO too. I had it pre-surgery and now it's worse as my body is trying to recover. To top it off, I've just taken my much loved cat to a specialist vet. The minimum I'm going to part with today is $1.5k. Ouch!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tahli View Post
    Good point @calypso75. I always take a pen and jot down how many follicles I have and what size they are. One cycle I had 6 tinies. I nearly fell off the table but it's usually about 3 which reflects my AMH level I think.
    @Blossom74 does have an update. I think it might come in around 8pm. @BlondeinBrisvegas Coolio, I'll pop 2 extra little blue pills up the vjayjay at night. You can't o/d on estrogen right?! I hope you can stay as cool as possible. I have a virus from my LO too. I had it pre-surgery and now it's worse as my body is trying to recover. To top it off, I've just taken my much loved cat to a specialist vet. The minimum I'm going to part with today is $1.5k. Ouch!!
    No Luv, you can't OD on the E2

    $1.5K??? Fruck me!!! Not that your furbaby isn't worth every cent, but kind of the last thing you needed right now!!! Mind you, they say "it never rains, it pours", so while you're outlaying big bucks for everything else....what's another $1.5k hey???

    Hope you're feeling better soon too Luvxo

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    @Precious40 oh sweetheart that absolutely frigging sucks, what a horrible thing to have happen. I know we try and prepare ourselves for reality, but that sliver of hope that kicks in always seems to get us. I hope you can grieve with your DH for the little one that just wasn't meant to be and wasn't quite right. Will you have to have a D & C now? That's been my path in the same situation, once I waited six weeks and nothing happened, so I wanted it over and done with the next time. Sending love and hugs from across the country at this horrible time

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    @Precious40 I'm so sorry lovely. Such a heartbreaking & horrible thing to go through. Only time will heal. Take care of yourselves & take the time to grieve. Thinking of you x

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    So sorry precious. Ditto the fruck you blighted ovum comment from bib. You're very strong to stay at work. Treat yourself tonight maybe have some wine and a good cry/scream. I really feel for you Hun xo

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    @Precious40
    So sorry, what an unbelievably crappy outcome. So unfair, so very unfair.
    Please be kind to yourself and seek help if needed. I was borderline suicidal after my last failed cycle and thankfully saw a very kind GP and am glad I reached out. X

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    @Precious40 I'm so so sorry. Now words will suffice. It's shxte. Take care luv x

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    Oh no @Precious40 I'm so sad for you. Look after yourself and treat yourselves to something nice. I think most of us can empathise with you unfortunately, it's so very unfair. Sending you big hugs

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    @Precious40 - it's just crap. Blighted ovums are truly the work of the devil. I'm sure a lot of us have had one, I have.

    It's just so unfair for you.

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    Where do I begin?

    @Precious40, I am so very sorry hon. You gave this pregnancy such a red-hot go and you remained positive right to the end which is commendable. It is such a sad time for you and DH, and speaking from experience while it does get easier with time you never get over it, you just learn to live with the loss. I hope you and DH take some time to grieve the loss of your beautiful little baby who was so very much loved and wanted.


    I presume your FS had spoken to you as to how to proceed now hon? There are some drugs such as Prednisolone which you will have to wean off gradually. To stop them suddenly can make you feel quite unwell, and feeling sick is not something you need when you are already in emotional distress. If you are unsure on how to wean off your particular medications I'm sure the lovelies on here can help guide you.


    Are you going to need a D&C? It is such a personal choice. In the end I decided to go that route because it was quicker and it got it over and done with so that I could begin to grieve the loss of my baby properly. The other benefit to the D&C was that I could do some testing, which in one way turned out to be a blessing. I, like you, had been told I had a blighted ovum, but when the test results came through they said that fetal remains were identified. ie: I did not have an empty sac - at one stage there WAS a baby growing inside me. It was really important for me to have that acknowledged on paper. It also brought me a great deal of comfort, as did the test results which showed there was no identifiable 'cause' that ended my pregnancy. It was just bad luck, pure and simple.


    I'm so sorry hon, it is just so much to take in and I (like everyone else on here) had so hoped that things would turn out differently than they did. So much of what you went through reminded me of when I lost my baby and my heart hurts that you, too, now know this kind of pain. I wish I knew the right words to bring you peace and ease your pain. Please know I am thinking of you and DH at this sad time



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