@Tahli I'd be really interested to know how you'd go with an IUI given that you've had a natural pregnancy and baby. The fact that its non invasive when it comes to your eggs I would think could only be a good thing. Maybe you could go on a "holiday" to somewhere outside of Vic and try one through a low cost clinic?
Ive had 2 FS's tell me they think we should move on to DE. Ive had that sunken feeling to hear that but honestly my response in my head was that they've been wrong the whole time through this so what makes that response any more right. The honest answer is that nobody knows what will happen, they base their responses on statistics. And I've also had that experience where they change their mind the next appointment about something which I think is more a case of them forgetting what they said the last time. Yes I know the reality is they are probably right, we are all aware the chances are low, however we are going for one more go so that I can be satisfied that we have done what we want to do and have not been swayed to stop by someone so that I will regret it later. It took me a while to get to that point but now I realise this is my life not theirs and Im the one that has everything to lose if I don't follow my gut.