So sorry to read your devastating story SoReady. Being 3 years into this journey I can honestly say time does help. But not in the way everybody thinks. I think of our daughter every minute, I definitely haven't forgotten her or 'gotten over it' it's more that time has enabled me to get to a point where I can think about her and not have it be so painful, I can think about her and still carry on with my day. In the beginning the pain is so intense and frightening but I promise it won't always be that way. I used to be scared about the pain going away, almost like I wanted it to stay because I was worried it would mean I had forgotten her if it went away. But it has faded, to a bearable point, but she is still there and I am so grateful for that.
Be gentle to with yourselves ladies. X