I have a seven week old. He is quite a good baby yes he doesn't sleep much at night but I don't really know many bubs who do. Its hard to get them into a routine at this age and I understand that. I do most nights and only ask my partner for help when I have hit the point of exhaustion. Past couple of weeks he has gone to the pub after work and stayed there until 10pm (trade he finishes work at 330). He comes home and makes comments like oh your crying again mum will change your nappy because she hasn't done anything all day. Last night I woke him up at 1:30 DS had been feeding every 2 hours and I was exhausted. I asked him for help and he said I will do tomorrow night. I was so tired I went back out to the couch (where I sleep with DS so he can get undisrupted nights sleep in bed) started feeding him and burst into tears. My partner came out and started yelling at me. I asked him not to yell at me and he said I'm not f$@#%ing yelling at you but I will be soon. Go to fing bed and get some fing sleep stop acting like a 5 yr old. I didn't say anything so he yelled at me again saying stop being a fing id$%t. I cried harder and he said don't your dar fing cry. I went to bed and quietly cried myself to sleep. He has become angry and mean getting worse over last couple of weeks. He have never ever been like this. He is always respectful caring loving my best friend. I don't understand what has changed I feel like he hates me and I am finding myself smiling on the outside telling everyone everything's OK when on the inside I am breaking. Is this normal behaviour for couples with a newborn?, I feel lost and don't understand why he is doing this. He was so excited about bubs and now its like we are horrible and I can't figure out what we have done?