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    I'd be the worst ***** in the world to him if I didn't that ...his attitude is what ever super he has is his and wage is his and all women in a divorce are *****s because they try to take money and kids away from the Husbands. ..

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I'd be the worst ***** in the world to him if I didn't that ...his attitude is what ever super he has is his and wage is his and all women in a divorce are *****s because they try to take money and kids away from the Husbands. ..
    He may think that, but the law says otherwise. You are entitled to a share of his super and your marital assets.

    I would suggest you go and see a lawyer to find out your rights. Counselling would be beneficial as well to sort out your thoughts.

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    I feel so angry because my kids are in the middle of this it would be so much easier if we didn't have kids together...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I feel so angry because my kids are in the middle of this it would be so much easier if we didn't have kids together...
    Of course it would be easier if you didn't have the kids. Reality is that you do, you need to be strong for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SSecret Squirrel View Post
    Of course it would be easier if you didn't have the kids. Reality is that you do, you need to be strong for them.
    This.

    And you need to raise your kids in an environment where this sort of treatment of their mother isn't normal.

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    I have been at my lowest, for no specific reason... Stupid phone posted before I was done. Anyway, I got out of it with a counsellor and family support.
    Your husband is manipulating and controlling you, you have to get out for yours and your children's sake. Your kids would be far better off with a healthy, happy mother and separated parents than in the situation he is creating
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    Last time we split I was in a horrible head space. ..I had never experienced anything like it before...it was scary and very emotional. ..I didn't cope well at all and I have never forgiven him for the stress and hurt and pain. ..I never will .
    I know that if this is it it's it I can't do this over and over again. ..
    I just hope that someday he goes through the same pain someday and I can stand their and say "hurts hey **** hole"...and laugh and walk away with a smile on my face ...
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    Harsh yes but that's just how I feel because of him ..

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    @RuffledPansy - my parents divorced when I was 8. If you want some more back story to the whys and wherefors, PM me. It isn't something I want to pist on a forum. We didn't have much in the way of money or material goods... but we were happy. I am glad we had a happy childhood, great memories. I honestly don't remember the stuff fondly. I remember going to the beach every afternoon in summer, mum letting me stay up with her a couple of nights a month, dancing in the rain. Those sorts of things.

    If you're ready to stop dealing with his crap, leave. You and your kids will be happier for it. He's clearly horrible to you, and you deserve better.

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    I really really struggle sometimes asking myself will I be better off truly ....or will I make it worse...


 

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