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    I know what you are all saying. ..and I agree. ..
    I'm scared. ...I love him but I'm so angry and hurt from all that he has done and it hurts that he doesn't give a **** ....I want to love and have someone love me and to love and give my kids what they deserve. ..it not too much to ask is it ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I know that last time we split his work hid his bonuses in another account for him ...his bonus are monthly if he reaches budget and they can be up to a few thousand at a time ...he pockets than to him self now ...
    If you suspect that is happening, lodge a change of assessment form with the child support agency, using reason 8 - the assessment does not correctly reflect the parents income.

    http://www.humanservices.gov.au/customer/forms/cs1970

    If he is pocketing the bonuses into a separate bank account, make sure you obtain copies of his bank statements during financial settlement. Use this as proof to give to the child support agency.

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    I don't have access to anything of his like that at all .

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Our 3 eldest kids can't stand him now and know what he does and has done ...
    Great. Use that information when working out child custody arrangements and make sure they only see him the bare minimum amount of time.

    (Again may sound harsh, but my view on this is heavily tainted by my own personal situation).

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I don't have access to anything of his like that at all .
    A lawyer will ensure you do. If worst comes to the worst and you wind up in court, his financial documents will be subpoenaed. Getting lawyers involved in financial settlement will mean he will not be able hide anything from you.
    Last edited by SSecret Squirrel; 19-01-2016 at 23:19.

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    Your eldest don't have to see him because of their age ...they also think that I'm stupid for being with him and going back to him and putting up with his **** ...

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    [QUOTE=RuffledPansy;8383076]Our eldest don't have to see him because of their age ...they also think that I'm stupid for being with him and going back to him and putting up with his **** ...

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    Sorry double post

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Your eldest don't have to see him because of their age ...they also think that I'm stupid for being with him and going back to him and putting up with his **** ...
    How old are your eldest children?

    If the situation is that toxic, and the kids are upset by you staying, you are risking your older kids taking matters into their own hands and leaving home.

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