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    Please let us know you're ok

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    Hi yes I'm ok ...m

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    I guess reading some of the posts it has made me feel like I am weak and a push over in regards to him...
    Then at times I feel as though maybe to a certain degree it is my fault because I don't do more around the home and I make it depressing for him to be hear that's why he does what he does.
    But deep down I know that he does what he because he chooses to..
    I know that the day he comes home and tells me that he has to go away for the business trip.....and I know the truth really then it all comes out ....I have to walk ...I know that that will be it .....he will have given me no choice ...

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    You know it's ok to just leave because you're not happy too?

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    None of this is your fault and you are not weak and a push over. You are a strong woman that has just been worn down by a horrible person.
    The moment will come when you find the strength to leave and you will have many people here to support you when you are ready.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I guess reading some of the posts it has made me feel like I am weak and a push over in regards to him...
    Then at times I feel as though maybe to a certain degree it is my fault because I don't do more around the home and I make it depressing for him to be hear that's why he does what he does.
    But deep down I know that he does what he because he chooses to..
    I know that the day he comes home and tells me that he has to go away for the business trip.....and I know the truth really then it all comes out ....I have to walk ...I know that that will be it .....he will have given me no choice ...
    hi ruffledpansy, I have decided to join this thread because your quote from mother Theresa. "the most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of being unloved". I am wondering where is your 'feeling of being loved', coming from. I believe your children would give you love, but I cannot see how you would be finding any love in your relationship with your husband. Love is enough, love is enough to hold a person together for 23 years, but you have not had Love. Maybe at first, but not for a long time. When you find your inner strength, it is there believe me, you will walk out the door, with your children, and not look back. I will be praying for that day to come. hugs, marie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I guess reading some of the posts it has made me feel like I am weak and a push over in regards to him...
    Then at times I feel as though maybe to a certain degree it is my fault because I don't do more around the home and I make it depressing for him to be hear that's why he does what he does.
    But deep down I know that he does what he because he chooses to..
    I know that the day he comes home and tells me that he has to go away for the business trip.....and I know the truth really then it all comes out ....I have to walk ...I know that that will be it .....he will have given me no choice ...
    It's not your fault. If he isn't happy about the state of the house, he should help get it up to his standards. You are supposed to be companions, not slave and master.

    If him going on this trip is that thing you need to be sure about leaving, then use it. We can all tell you to leave earlier, but it won't do anything. You have to be ready to.

    When you do leave, you won't feel like a pushover anymore. And it will take time, but you'll feel less and less weak. Then you'll probably wonder why you stayed for so long. You'll be okay.

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    Don't forget to talk to Centrelink and legal aid Hun.

    Did anything happen about the credit and half the pay?

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    Credit card he said he made a mistake and clicked on a link ..m but I found out on the way home from work (the very same company rang me asking me if I received letter in mail ) asked if I received mail from them with their latest offer ... I said I don't think I received it ...she said she would send it again .....SO I IT WAS MY MAIL HE OPENED. ...so that doesn't add up... (he has opened my mail in the past that part doesn't bother me ...
    Since he only deposited half his pay ...I changed my password on my account so that he couldn't access it ...
    He had the hide to ask my why ...

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    So you didn't ask him about the half pay?


 

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