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    He thinks that I should have just done something just to receive money not take on a job that I like ...

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    but don't his secret vacations interfere with the kids? if have thought a dad who conducts his life based on manipulation, control and deceit would interfere with his kids more than their mum going out to work and earning a decent living.

    nightfill psh. you'd be sleeping all day to catch up on your rest! that's a dumb idea if I ever heard one. a working mum is a great example to her kids. what a douche for suggesting you do nightfill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    He thinks that I should have just done something just to receive money not take on a job that I like ...
    well maybe the stripper thing would be a good idea? run it past him and see what he thinks lol. it's night work so "less interference with the kids" and it's good money. better than nightfill.

    does he ever stop to think about what other people think HE should do/not do? or is he just good at giving the directives and not so great at taking them?

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    In his eyes he is always right...he doesn't care if his words hurt at all..obviously. ..
    He thinks he is always right

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    In his eyes he is always right...he doesn't care if his words hurt at all..obviously. ..
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    pack your bags and leave. he can have fun arguing with the brick wall then!

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    Does this 'man' have narcissistic personality disorder? Just sounds so much like someone I know.

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    I'm buggered I'm going to sleep in was up till 2:30am last night doing assignments while he was away . ...I find it hard doing it when he is home he *****es saying that all the house work should be done first before I study....so I took advantage while he was away...so it's really hitting me now with the lack of sleep...I worked
    8:30am till 5pm also today..

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    It's not the job you have he hates. It's that you've made a decision without his consent to follow your heart and he isn't in control of that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~Marigold~ View Post
    It's not the job you have he hates. It's that you've made a decision without his consent to follow your heart and he isn't in control of that.
    I agree100% I have noticed that ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    In his eyes he is always right...he doesn't care if his words hurt at all..obviously. ..
    He thinks he is always right
    Which is exactly why you will never win with playing games with him. You will always be catching your tail trying to "show him" or getting revenge, you won't because you can never, ever win against a narcissist. Ever. You need to forget about revenge and game playing, it only ends in you bring sucked back in. Erry time!

    Leave when he's away. Get a good counsellor and work on planning your future. You get 1 life, and you're most likely only half way through it so spend it fulfilled instead of emotionally sucked dry.

    There are some excellent forums for victims of narcissists and a method for escaping one - Google grey rock narcissist.

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