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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Oh my you have me in tears I am trying to type this trying to see I am in tears. ..I'm sorry. ..why me ...
    didn't mean to make you cry. massive hugs xx

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    Just hits home that's all ....also I have every wanted (who doesn't)...is someone to love and be loved by and a good father. ..to grow old with ...

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    I know it might seem really satisfying to stand in front of this guy telling him what you know and that you're leaving and that he can't hurt you anymore, before walking out the door head held high.
    But have you considered how you're going to feel if you don't get the response you want/need?
    What if he laughs in your face?
    What if he becomes violent?
    What if he opens the door to watch you leave?
    None of that is satisfying.
    You're still in control, actually more so, if you make the decision to leave on your terms, while he's away.
    As others have said, you don't need dirt, you have years of it.
    Stop expecting this man to give you ANYTHING you need, especially at the end, if he couldn't during your marriage.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    ....I want to be able to throw it in his face ...
    Please don't provoke a man you think will be violent towards you. Success is the best revenge.

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    I know he will be so angry ...he has screamed at me in the past and thrown things across the room. ..yelled and slammed doors ...sad thing was a few weeks ago we got into a argument a few weeks ago and we were in the car and he put his foot down and sped off (we were both in the car)...he was trying to scare me and for the first time I wasn't scared I didn't care if we lost control of the car or hit a tree ....something came over me and I just wasn't scared...
    Mind you he didn't slow down at the lights and the speed camera flash and I'm sure he was done for speeding I laughed out loud at him ....

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Just hits home that's all ....also I have every wanted (who doesn't)...is someone to love and be loved by and a good father. ..to grow old with ...
    of course, we all want that.

    do you think this is it for you though. like what if you left this guy and took some time out for you, got better and healed from this experience and were able to meet another guy who you could grow old with?

    it's very likely there's a guy out there looking for exactly the same. it's just that you'll never get to meet them when you're stuck with this guy.

    I agree with the other posters, success is the best revenge.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    I know he will be so angry ...he has screamed at me in the past and thrown things across the room. ..yelled and slammed doors ...sad thing was a few weeks ago we got into a argument a few weeks ago and we were in the car and he put his foot down and sped off (we were both in the car)...he was trying to scare me and for the first time I wasn't scared I didn't care if we lost control of the car or hit a tree ....something came over me and I just wasn't scared...
    Mind you he didn't slow down at the lights and the speed camera flash and I'm sure he was done for speeding I laughed out loud at him ....
    so it's the general public he has no regard for either. charming man. he could've hit a child or injured anyone else by doing that. he's vile and out of control.

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    He has NO credit cards ....he's not using joint funds ...
    He would be using bonuses that he gets from work and only he sees and only he spends....oh and any money that he applies for from payday loans...

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    He has NO credit cards ....he's not using joint funds ...
    He would be using bonuses that he gets from work and only he sees and only he spends....oh and any money that he applies for from payday loans...
    balls! I was picturing you cancelling his cards and him getting to Hawaii all full of swagger thinking he's a baller out for a good time and getting a rude shock when his cards decline. I had a bit of a chuckle at the mental picture actually.

    pay day loans!? eeek. they're bad news. whose name are those in? I'm hoping just his.....?

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuffledPansy View Post
    Oh my you have me in tears I am trying to type this trying to see I am in tears. ..I'm sorry. ..why me ...
    A very wise friend once told me this quote....

    "No man should ever cause you more tears than smiles"

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