Last edited by ~Marigold~; 04-02-2016 at 19:29.
but if he's gone to the trouble of booking this secret trip, then won't he just cover up the absence with some watertight excuse? I mean how does he propose to explain where he is when he goes away? I'm guessing he'll just say it's a work trip and then what?
where's he going anyway and who is he going with?
I suppose we could give you 1000 reasons to leave but you won't until it hits you that you and your beautiful children deserve better. I hope it doesn't take you too much longer. It doesn't matter whether you have been with someone for 2 years or 23 years, if you aren't treated well, it won't get better. Your son will learn that its ok to treat women like sh!t, hopefully your daughter doesn't find a man like her father.
There are so many people that think you deserve better, to have support and honesty and respect.
I wanted my son to be there because he is in his middle 20's and if I don't have him their then I know that my husband will become violent and I will be scared my son already knows what's going on ...
..Edited as just saw post above..
If its for protection, then that right there is your answer. You need to leave, and not wait til the holiday rolls around to justify it. No one should need protecting from their partner and if they do then they need help to find a safe exit from the relationship. Don't give him the opportunity to hurt you by confronting him. You don't need to do that to be given permission to end the marriage. Confronting him won't help. If you're scared of him then that's all the signal you need to get him out of your life as much as possible.
Yes if he goes he will tell me it's for work but will not let on to me the location because that side of it doesn't fit ..
Hawaii/New York. ..as far as I know alone ...
So what is he going on this holiday for?
Himself. ...Hawaii to relax. ...get ****ed by the pool ...New York to gamble. ..
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