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    Quote Originally Posted by siansmum View Post
    Losing a child: no-one can possibly understand the pain and grief involved unless they've lost a child. And in this situation, I'm specifically referring to losing a child, not a miscarriage. I have three miscarriages and I was sad about losing our unborn children, but the pain of our five and a half year old daughter dying, is insurmountable.

    Parenting a child with special needs.

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    Preterm birth
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    [QUOTE=PomPoms;
    --Having a DP who is a doctor and their commitment to their job that comes before everything else[/QUOTE]

    Substitute vet for doctor and I reckon it's a fairly good comparison.

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    Anxiety

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    Moving away from home to the other side of the country where you know no one. I did it at 18 and then saw my mum do it at 50 something and it was harder for her than it had been for me.

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    For things I've experienced that I think you need to experience to understand:

    Addiction
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    Social anxiety / agoraphobia

    As things I don't imagine I can truly understand without experiencing them:
    Almost anything to do with raising children! I can empathise with people on what I think it's like to experience the sleep depravation, insecurity that you might be doing it 'wrong', the different challenges each age brings, having a child with developmental problems etc, I don't think I can really KNOW what it's like until I experience it myself.

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    I agree with Pp who said migraines.

    I didnt go though gender dissappointment, but I feel as though I understand someone who has, because I knew before kids that I would have really struggled if I didnt get to have a girl. I would have been devastated. So even though I never experienced it, I feel as though I can try to put myself in the shoes of someone who can.

    I think I am a pretty empathetic person, but I feel like some things are easier to understand than others. @siansmum, I have two asthmatic children who have had some serious attacks, & I read your story on here & think of you often. I could never understand or imagine what it was like to lose your beautiful little girl xx 💗

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    Having twins.

    I've had a few people tell me that having 2 under 2 or whatever is like having twins... No, it's not! I'm not saying that that situation doesn't have its own unique challenges that I don't understand, or that it's not bloody difficult, but it's not the same as being pregnant with two, giving birth to two, caring for two newborns and starting your life as a parent as a mum of two.


 

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