Since becoming a mother a few years ago I really feel I have changed from being a 'girly free spirit' to becoming a strong woman in charge.
My husband has not taken aboard the new responsibility very well, i dare say he has resisted them.
This has translated to the bedroom. I married a older man because I wanted strength and maturity. I also want to be swept of my feet by a strong confident man in the bedroom. But when I see my husband in bed, after he spent the weekend being 'a free spirit with his bros and too lazy to shower' I totally lose interest. I do feel like he is one of my children sometimes he does not like responsibility and he denies any accountability for anything.
How do i make love to a man like that?, it feels like i'm in bed with a 19 year old and thats the last thing my body and mind desires.
I understand making a 14 yr old boy have a shower but to have to nag your husband who is 5 years older to do it is suck a turn off.