Thanks everyone great suggestions I might do up a draft and take in to my next appt to check if there's anything else etc. I am lucky the hospital and my OB are very pro VBAC and we've already discussed wireless monitoring and water birth etc (which they actually do for VBAC regularly). I've already signed the forms for that 😊
Similarly my OB does delayed cord clamping etc as standard for both vaginal and c-sec. However I'll note these things on paper too.
I agree the things I need to think about are preferences if things go wrong ie if I end up with another emergency c or under GA etc. Also the post birth stuff is something I didn't even consider last time so need to find out what's possible at my hospital.