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    Just want to say a big thanks to everyone who helped me out with this. I've sent her a message telling her we don't wish to continue the friendship and outlining the reason why. I've let DH know and he said when he receives a message from her husband he will respond by letting him know that he is also unhappy about the comments made to me by his wife and we decided together it would be best to end the friendship.

    I'm sure there will be fallout from both of them, but I'm sure telling her straight was the best way to go. She actually sent me a message this morning asking if there was a problem, so I had to respond to her direct question. My only two options were to lie and say there was no problem, or tell her there was. I wasn't willing to do the first, as that didn't seem right.

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    Good work @HillDweller!

    Have you heard anything back yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mod-Degrassi View Post
    Good work @HillDweller!

    Have you heard anything back yet?
    Thanks @Mod-Degrassi

    Nope, she hasn't replied yet. She sent her message to me this morning via Facebook messenger, so that's how I replied. I can see that she has seen the message but I haven't received a response yet. I've decided that if she tries to drag it into a fight with a nasty response that I just won't respond. I've said my piece and I don't think arguing back and forward with her about it would be in any way helpful. Hopefully that's the right way to play it!

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    Good for you @HillDweller! xx

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    Have you deleted and blocked her on Facebook yet? I don't think you'll get a reply, might as well officially end it on Facebook as well (IMO)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hollywood View Post
    Have you deleted and blocked her on Facebook yet? I don't think you'll get a reply, might as well officially end it on Facebook as well (IMO)
    I thought I'd give her until tomorrow to reply, then delete her, if she doesn't delete me first!

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    I'm dying to know what she said. Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyflower View Post
    I'm dying to know what she said. Lol.
    Haha @sunnyflower she finally replied late last night and denied any of the conversations ever took place, which just left me shaking my head because they took place in front of groups of people each time who have all said something to me about how inappropriate she was after the events.

    I could have called her out on her lies but what's the point! I just deleted her instead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HillDweller View Post
    Haha @sunnyflower she finally replied late last night and denied any of the conversations ever took place, which just left me shaking my head because they took place in front of groups of people each time who have all said something to me about how inappropriate she was after the events.

    I could have called her out on her lies but what's the point! I just deleted her instead.
    Good on you. You said your piece, confirmed she is a right tool and can now live a peaceful life without her in it.

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    Well done

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