So my mum moved over from SA in oct last year to live with us for 12 months to get to know her grandkids and also help out while I go back to work.
Things have been great, apart from financially. I did some temp work at the end of last year but haven't had any work since. I am signing up with agencies and getting my cv out but nothing yet.
I had to pay for mums new visa and she had to have a medical for it too. Her DH lives overseas at the moment and he was working and sending money every month but he's since gone into hospital with gallstones apparently the size of sugar cubes, and a lot of them!! And they removed his gallbladder last week as his condition was life threatening. He is a sick man, he also has diabetes and a tumor in his brain which is inoperable.
Anyway mums visa cost like $300 and the medical was around $290. She got her visa which was great.
But at her medical they found blood in her urine, so off to the gp we went.
Mum went to doctor again today for test results, the doctor is normally good but mum thinks she's just trying to get more money sending her for unnecessary tests. She's already had two tests for urine to check for blood, now the GP wants to do another urine test to check what it looks like. THEN she wants a blood test and an ultrasound and then just before she left she told my mum it could be bladder cancer...
She has travel insurance which covers medical, but u know what these companies are like!! I have no idea what appointments they will cover and what tests they will cover.
Already I've spent $132 on two doctors appointments AND another $125 on one set of urine and Pap smear.
The ultrasound this GP wants mum to get is another $172.70 and then the other urine and blood test is another $122.50 or something.
Then IF it turns out to be something like cancer, what the heck do I do then??
Anyway not really any point to my post, just silently stressing out