Hi Tegs, yes she did get back to me and said that it's just a guide and they want to treat everyone. So I have filled out the virtual visit questionnaire and we will see how we go. She emailed last night and said she is away until Tuesday but will get back to me then. I think I would prefer this clinic as you guys seem to have all had such good experiences. The Gennett is just not sitting well with me. I am supposed to have a phone call with them next week but I might put it off until I hear where I stand with Zlin. So I have read a lot of the threads from the beginning but it's a lot of information. Can you summarise the ladies who have gone over and how many of them have been successful etc? I have see a few BFP's. I am also wondering too about ladies over 40. I know the process of donation takes away age issues but I was wondering for us older ladies do you have any guilt about doing this? I am 42. 43 in August. I lost my Mum and Dad at 39 and 40. I ask myself all the time as I been selfish by wanting to do this at the age I am? Potentially I could be nearly 50 when taking my child to start school. My Mum was 40 when she had me but it was a mistake I was not planned. So actually planning to do this and knowing that I am potentially leaving a child parentless at a young age does make me feel guilty at times. Anyone else have that struggle?