ECM1981 for your mum to offer!! I love it. I have not really told anyone about the donor egg situation. I had a girl at work ask and I could sense she was struggling with fertility herself so I told her hoping it would help her and I told my hairdresser as she is turning 40 and single and when I told her I was pregnant she was like oh cool I still have heaps of time I can get pregnant later. Think she was shocked when I told her statistics!! Anyways I agree with juliemalooley just say nothing to no one about going to CT. I didn't even tell my work mates. Just said I'm going on holidays have something personal to attend to. Wonder if anyone worked out the dates when I announced I was pregnant!!