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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMuppet View Post
    Do you know her at all? Are you on first name basis? If you are at all friendly I would probably drop in and check if everything is okay first.

    If you don't really know her, then yes I would call the police the next time such an incident occurs (like the one where she locked her daughter out).
    But then she will know it's you if you do report it

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    I don't know her at all, and we're moving on Friday, so not terribly concerned about her knowing who has reported it. I'm planning on calling the police to report my concerns. I think that's probably not the first time she's locked her out from what my other neighbour has said - she said she heard similar in winter (in Canberra).
    Were in two separate groups of duplexes. There are about 6 different people/families who could report it. I'd rather not run the risk that no one else has reported it.

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    I would call, unless you tell her you called you wont be at risk by police saying it was you

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    Hmmm, what was the mum yelling about? Also my DD often asks to go outside to play when I have something to do inside but will go out but scream at me to come outside, so that part wouldn't concern me.

    It would depend on the content of her yelling as to whether I would call anyone. As much as emotional abuse is not on, as far as I am aware it's not an offence to yell at someone unless you are threatening them.

    So yes I personally think calling the police would be over reacting if she wasn't yelling anything threatening to her child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Dancer View Post
    I don't know her at all, and we're moving on Friday, so not terribly concerned about her knowing who has reported it. I'm planning on calling the police to report my concerns. I think that's probably not the first time she's locked her out from what my other neighbour has said - she said she heard similar in winter (in Canberra).
    Were in two separate groups of duplexes. There are about 6 different people/families who could report it. I'd rather not run the risk that no one else has reported it.
    If your moving i would call the police and the childrens help line.

    On the childrens help line give them all the incidents you can recall. Large and small. Your neighbour needs help.

    Shouting and yelling at a child is not on. Yes there are times where a parent may raise their voice in an appropriate manner but what you describe does not sound like that at all.

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    I would call. Hope the little girl will be okay, poor love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by A-Squared View Post
    Hmmm, what was the mum yelling about? Also my DD often asks to go outside to play when I have something to do inside but will go out but scream at me to come outside, so that part wouldn't concern me.

    It would depend on the content of her yelling as to whether I would call anyone. As much as emotional abuse is not on, as far as I am aware it's not an offence to yell at someone unless you are threatening them.

    So yes I personally think calling the police would be over reacting if she wasn't yelling anything threatening to her child.
    To be perfectly honest, most of what the mother is screaming has been unclear - her voice is often distorted by her anger, and she swears so many times in a sentence I can't even follow it. I don't have a problem witg swearing, but feel like swearing like that at a child is unnecessary. I know that she was screaming about how her daughter always has something to whinge about yesterday (the little girl was scared because there was a spider near her) - I was outside doing the washing, and their door was open, so it was clear as day.

    Would you feel like it would be necessary to call if the little girl had been out there in 33 degree heat by herself, and had been crying/screaming for 5 minutes?

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    I think the fact you are concerned enough to ask means you should call. Go with your gut. Be over cautious than under. X

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Dancer View Post
    To be perfectly honest, most of what the mother is screaming has been unclear - her voice is often distorted by her anger, and she swears so many times in a sentence I can't even follow it. I don't have a problem witg swearing, but feel like swearing like that at a child is unnecessary. I know that she was screaming about how her daughter always has something to whinge about yesterday (the little girl was scared because there was a spider near her) - I was outside doing the washing, and their door was open, so it was clear as day.

    Would you feel like it would be necessary to call if the little girl had been out there in 33 degree heat by herself, and had been crying/screaming for 5 minutes?
    As I wasn't there, I'm not 100% sure but maybe the child went out before she started screaming, she might have accidentally locked the door or the kid couldn't reach the handle and the mum was in the toilet or couldn't hear her???

    I'm just throwing out innocent possibilities. 33 degrees to me isn't scorching.

    But if you hear her yelling at her daughter to go outside, then she opened the door and closed it behind her - that's a different story. If that didn't happen there's probably 50 explanations for what she did.

    I just think in my mind, as awful as it is for kids to be yelled at, if they're not being called names or not being threatened, the police can't really do much about it.

    Either way though.... poor child.

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    Yep call.

    You never know. You would feel awful if something happened to this little girl and u didnt act. Too much in the news lately where children are being harmed by their parents. Id like to know id done everything i could to prevent an outcome like that xx


 

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