@MrsChino thats great that you may have both fs in there at delivery they have definately seen you through the whole journey. Yes girls its definitely about the babies arriving safely and you and them being well.
AFM - spoke to the nurse again earlier, she asked if I had made a decision on putting our tested embryo back this next cycle since they had advised to wait until an fet. when I said yes we wanted to go ahead she said that will change my plan slightly they do want me to have another scratch which I will have in a few weeks. Also looking at my biopsy results from last October they are going to treat me for natural killer skills, apparently my levels were slightly elevated. So that means a higher dosage of prednisone and I will add in intralipids.