@Precious40 this is just damn ridiculous and must be excruciating for you. I'm praying for a miracle and one to come soon so you can get on with your life. Waiting around is not good for anyone x
@Blossom74. No offence taken. That's why I'm on here. For good news and bad. And to share our own experiences. I know it might not turn out good. But there's a little bit of hope. Just a slither.
I'll ask my FS on Monday what he thinks is going on.
As long as I have a plan B. I think my headspace is good. I love a goal whether it being a project, anything. I just need one. Otherwise I think wAy too much
I couldn't agree more love. With each new goal comes renewed hope
I'd keep your other appointment and make use of your time by asking questions as to how you would be proceeding should the worse case scenario occur. You can never ask too many questions.
Also, yes! Grill your FS and sus out what he's thinking! This is YOUR body and YOUR pregnancy and you have every right to know what's going on.
In the mean time, be kind to yourself. Lots of rest and good food, and if you need to have a good cry do that too. Your body and your mind are both under so much pressure right now and you need to take care of yourself.
@Precious40 it is a mind **** and im praying for you. My instance it didnt turn out well but i knew it wouldnt. It was just annoying the lingering hcg wheni just wanted it to drop. I have everything crossed for you hun xxx
@Precious40 I'm so sorry you are in limbo.
I'm a firm believer in never giving up hope. But I am always making back up plans just in case!
Be kind to yourself this weekend, I don't hear no fat lady yet so this isn't over xxxx
I think your right but I would get him to scan for ectopic. To at least try to rule that out. @Tahli. Summer and billie2 your posts all made me a bit teary. You ladies all have been through so much. @Tahli I just want to add I too have always admired your ability and percerverience with cycling. I tend to take a break sometimes 6 months I only cycle 3 times a year. No wonder you are broken honey your just tired, emotionally and physically IVF is the hardest thing anyone could go through let alone fail after failed cycles. I concur with what others have said. Take a break, do your procedure as well and those frozen embryos in Cape Town are going no where. It is amazing what 3 or 6 months can do for healing your body and soul. @Precious40 i agree with everything blossom said. Ask him questions on Monday. I am so sorry your stuck in limbo still. You remind me of me last year mine was almost exactly the same. Not saying yours will end like mine as there is always hope but just saying I know how your feeling exactly and it just sucks. Huge squishy hugs.
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