has anyone been in a similar situation to mine, and what was the outcome?
Im currently 25 weeks pregnant with my 3rd baby (different father to my first 2) and have split from the FOB due to emotional abuse and narcistic behaviour.
he is now threatening court action against me saying he will demand as much visitation as he likes, as he seems to think he can have a newborn for 8 hours a day from the start... He has never been around a newborn so has no
idea and I will also be breastfeeding.
Since he left he is now living with his parents who live 1 hour away from me and his work schedule is not set hours (sometimes working away for a few days at a time)
in no way will I deny him access to his child as I feel they should have a great relationship and bond, but I don't feel comfortable with him taking my newborn whenever he likes for as long as he likes. especially since bub will be breastfed.
i need to get baby into a routine ASAP so I can run my household with 3 kids as smooth as possible and he just doesnt care about that.
he is the type to actually go ahead and take me to court, so I'm just wondering what the process would be and how long would it take to have something written in place by the courts? also cost??
what would a likely outcome be for visitation within the first year or two, considering he lives an hour away?
in scared, I'm pregnant and emotional and I need to get as much realistic info as possible.