I need some opinions on my house situation as DH and I can not agree.
The story is very long so I will cut it super short. We bought a house a couple of years ago after living in the house for a while I hate it, just hate it. It's too big, it's split level over 3 levels, laundry is outside and its needs work about 100k worth. Now the house has an old above ground pool which is leaking and overall is just crap. In order to remove the pool we need additional work done so fences don't start collapsing we where quoted 10k. I do not want to put money into this house it makes me feel sick. We only have 2 kids we work all day so there is no point in this house being big it's just more cleaning for me. DH works 14 hour days and is never home so to him he sees no issue with the house. He doesn't get it and thinks it's silly to downgrade to a small home. But my DH could live in a trailer and see no issue. The only bonus is the location, we live in one of the best streets, 10 min to kids school and DD school bus stops close to our home. The street is leafy with quiet neighbours. So what do I do? I'm so miserable here.
1. put up with it for a few more years
2. Sell and downgrade knowing you might not get this location again
3. Just spend the money and fix it up