My grandmother is expected to pass away in the next week and I'll be going to her funeral (a 6hr drive away so will probably be away for 2 nights). Initially I thought DH and the kids would come with me but now I'm thinking maybe they are too young to deal with the funeral. They are 3.5 and 4.5yrs with no concept of death. The funeral is likely to be attended by only family members (many of whom have never met my kids and would love to), probably a service at the crematorium and then back to my uncles place for a bite to eat and chat. WDYT? Would you take them or not?