It is a relief to see that others also find married life testing at the best of times.
DH and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13
We have a DD who is 11 and DS who is almost 2
Our biggest things have been/are:
His gambling (I call it addiction, he won't acknowledge it)
Infertility for 8 years between DD and DS
Lies about money
Lies about a whole lot of other stuff that I am not sure where the truth and lies finish and start.
In this time, while there was no cheating that I am aware of, there were times where I had others pay me the attention that was lacking in my life.
I have honestly thought that we were in a better place now than ever before, but his gambling and lies has gotten so much worse.
I'm not sure how much more I will be able to take.