Not sure where this belongs really
We just got the news this week that my Dad's cancer has spread to his lungs and that treatment is no longer possible. The doctor said he has months; maybe 2 maybe 6
It started as throat cancer so as a result he now has a feeding tube and will be coming home from hospital on Monday with the palliative care team setting up hospital bed etc at home
Anyway; I've scrapped the original present I had for him as he can't do it (wanted to give him and my mum a seaplane flight over our area) and have had ideas about naming a star, family photos (although I don't think he'll want to be photographed) and a video from friends and family (problem is he hasn't told most of them yet)....
Anyone been through this horrible horrible time and has advice for something he might need? Amything practical as well as sentimental? My brains all over the place at the moment so any help appreciated :-(
Sorry for the essay