@Bongley yeah its kind of complicated to explain over the phone at the best of times, could you write to them and explain it? and tell everyone to keep it quiet, then ring them when they have read it? Your mum is maybe not going to get there with it but I guess atleast if you have told her its been said.
Are you guys going to tell everyone that bub is from a DE? All this stuff I haven't quite thought about properly yet..or is it more just family and close friends that you tell. A lot of kids don't necessarily look like one parent in particular so its not necessarily an obvious thing hey. Does the counselling go through all this stuff with you?
@billie the weight thing is important with Elonva as there are 2 doses but not as far as I know with gonal/puregon