Good luck with starting your next cycle @Green lady. Christmas is a whole new type of hell in IVF-land. My 42.8 yo cousin is pregnant naturally after TTC for 2 months, we IVFers were glad she was with her inlaws Chrissy Day! It does prove it's possible though.
I spoke to FS#2 about the 42 | 43 line and it's not our birthdays. I'm working on it being 43.? and hoping to bank some embies before then. We both seem to have good egg reserves which is encouraging! We can do this!!!