Blossom is there a risk that if 2 implant and only one is normal, then the non-normal could put the healthy fetus at risk? Plus the potential trauma of downs etc. My other fear is that a miscarriage takes months away from trying again, although if this really is your last cycle then that doesn't apply... Then the cost of PGD testing (at QFG at least) is actually not much shy of the out-of-pocket for a stim cycle. It's a hard decision.
One of my bubs was a morula that I was told wouldn't make it to freeze. I thought it deserved a chance and they agreed to transfer 2 (I am guessing they agreed because they thought it had no chance). Both my clinics wouldn't freeze morulas. Shame. It seems like they might actually be the normal ones.
The interesting thing about slow embies is back when it was legal the 'cure' was to transfer some mitochnodria from another womans egg. Now if the eggs were failing to progress because they were chromosomally abnormal then producing embies from them would be disastrous. That's not what happened though. There were higher rates of Turners syndrome that the norm but not as high as what you would expect. So obviously not all slow eggs are slow because of chromome 'mistakes'. They just lack energy.
You may have read that the UK legalised this procedure earlier this year... but only for those women who have mitochnodrial disease.
Hi Girls, I'm wondering if I can ask for your thoughts? I, like many of us I think, have put on weight (15kg) with IVF and of course this is not helpful to fertility. I eat super healthy (except for rare occasions like last night's BFN pizza and wine), but weight keeps creeping on. I'm wondering about asking Wazza if Duromine might be a good way to get rid of a couple of kgs before starting the next cycle at the end of Jan. When we first saw Wazza he said it would be good if I could loose a kg/month, but he wasn't too worried about my weight - then with his magical pharmacy I put on 3 kg that next week . My GP has said IVF = weight gain for most of us, so don't beat myself up about it. 40 also seems to have re-jigged my metabolism in a bad way. GP suggested Optifast can work (for non-IVF weight loss), but again that is calorie restriction/low nutrition. Any thoughts, experiences, or words of wisdom?
I think unfortunately (for us) that within our lifetimes there will be advances in IVF that would have made it much easier/possible for us all to have the families we want, but it might be too late for us. Maybe rather than bequeathing our estate to my niece and nephew (little that it will be post IVF!) we should put it into fertility research.
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