Whilst I generally see a great benefit in counselling, DH and I are just not 'counselling people.'
At the end of the day he knows this is important to me, but I think in his eyes if it doesn't work there is nothing further to be done about it - that's just life and you move on.
Obviously I don't feel that way - I would be devastated - but how can making him feel my pain make any difference to me or the outcome? He already supports it financially. I feel like I have dealt with all the IVF stuff on my own so far with little support from anyone (other than you all, of course) and maybe that's just how it is meant to be. After all, if I weren't pushing for this he certainly wouldn't be. Maybe this is just my cross to bare.